Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time

19th January, 2015

By: Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace, President of Dare 2 Be Different International - www.daretobedifferentskn.com since June, 2008 and Aspiring Prime Minister of The Federation of St. Kitts and Nevis - SINGLE

28 year Old Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace

Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time!

When my political party, The Blazing Star Movement - www.theblazingstarmovement.com takes office in the future, one of our initial and primary agendas would be to immediately start an aggressive federal campaign to educate the St. Kitts - Nevis populace on what TRUE LOVE IS, what MEMORABLE SEX is and what REAL FAMILY LIFE IS.

As a political party founded on God, we strongly believe that if we are to replant the nation on sound Godly principles, we must ensure that we promote FAMILY LIFE AND REAL TRUE LOVE on an ongoing basis and drive it into the minds of the nation using the media until we come back to truly seeing GODLY - LOVING AND FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.

I want to suggest in this article to you my global audience, that neither MEN or WOMEN are sex machines and Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time.

I can remember very well, Mrs. Dorothy Warner, my English Literature teacher and Mrs. Marilyn Rogers, my school principal sitting with me many times after school for hours in the Verchilds High School Library and helping me prepare my debate speeches to go up against other High Schools in the Federation and most times CONQUER. My colleague debater, Ms. Verlena Wrensford and I were just good! I was debating from since 2nd Form, so they had to put a little block by the podium when it was my turn to present as lead speaker, because I was just way too short. (MEMORIES)

At the very beginning of all of my presentations, both Mrs. Dorothy Warner and Mrs. Marilyn Rogers would ensure that my co-debater and I define THE KEY TERMS OF THE MOOT. (topic)

Let's therefore define the key terms now.

CONSTANT, according the the OXFORD POCKET SCHOOL DICTIONARY means HAPPENING ALL THE TIME

SEX, according to the GOOGLE DEFINE SECTION means (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including sexual intercourse. (where the penis penetrates the vagina and includes other sexual play)

The same source defines QUALITY TIME as time spent in giving another person one's undivided attention in order to strengthen a relationship, especially with reference to working parents and their child or children

I can almost foresee myself standing in the National Assembly in Government Headquarters on Church Street - Basseterre - St. Kitts in the future, after weeks or months of public consultation and not through an Emergency Sitting of Parliament so that everyone could have a FAIR SAY and DEBATE, then passing a TRUE LOVE, MEMORABLE SEX, AWESOME FAMILY LIFE AND QUALITY TIME BILL.

What ever our nation has to do under a Blazing Star Movement Administration to bring back the TRUE VALUES of LOVE, Family Life, Memorable Sex and not ONE NIGHT STANDS and SEX FOR MONEY, that once made us so proud and promoted LOVE and UNITY and TOGETHERNESS in years gone by, WE WILL DO IT.

In our fast paced world, where everyone now seems to be living in the SUB-CONSCIOUS and just keeps going and going and going, many boy friends and girl friends and husbands and wives feel helpless, hopeless, used and misused in the CONSCIOUS, but do all sorts of other things to try to shroud that feeling of EMPTINESS.

You really don't have to HIT a man or a woman to ABUSE them eh, you can be CONSTANTLY having sex with them, but only satisfying yourself, while they are afraid to tell you how bad they are hurting inside because they do not want to let you down.

It does happen on both sides - THE MALE AND THE FEMALE. I am a counselor too. Did you forget?

Sometimes, one party selfishly wants to satisfy his our her SEXUAL DESIRES and makes NO TIME to just relax and talk and think together and that hurts or even ABUSES the other partner, be it male and female.

Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time.

I want to also remind you here, that males and females sometimes have DIFFERENT SEX DRIVES and different issues with regards to having sex.

Some men and some women DON'T EVEN LIKE SEX. They just want someone to call their own, so they play the game just to please the other partner and SUFFER in the process, because they never tell that partner how they truly feel inside.

THIS IS HAPPENING DAILY AROUND THE WORLD! Are you one that is like that and hurting?

Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time.

Spending quality time with your LOVER is critically important. Quality time includes turning off your computer, your tablet, your smartphone and just LISTENING sometimes or TALKING OUT YOUR HEART AND COMMUNICATING so that your other half would get to learn more about you. Your likes, your dislikes, your dreams, your goals, your setbacks, your weak spots too. WE ALL HAVE WEAK SPOTS WE SHOULD SHARE WITH OUR PARTNERS. Many times they can help, but ALL WE TALK WITH THEM IS SEX - SEX - SEX and MORE SEX.

Not nice! Not nice at all!

Quality time is going for a walk together, maybe even regular.

Quality time is surprising him or her SUDDENLY and saying, lets go to SHIGGIDY SHACK to grab something to eat and chill on the beach chairs.

Quality time is taking a cool walk along the beach in the evening holding hands.

Quality time is sitting in the square or in somewhere public with your LOVER, where everyone CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE TAKEN and you don't have to hide because you're playing games with MULTIPLE MEN OR WOMEN or cheating on the one you tell and fool daily that you love them.

Quality time, is to stop working through your lunch hour and say, "Honey, can we go for lunch today TOGETHER?"

Of course, I let out the very basic stuff. I would never tell you the REAL ROMANTIC THINGS THAT I WOULD DO TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH Mrs. Khrystus 2015 - whoever that will be. But I'll keep her amazed 24-7 - 365 days a year when I do make my choice.

I think I'm getting carried away here. DO YOU? Let me begin to come to an end and say again. Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time.

I know that you're probably saying, "Khrystus has so many female friends around the world that he boasts of publicly and on his facebook page and knows so much about love, sex, family life and relationships and WHY IS HE STILL SINGLE?"

Let me answer that question with hopes of helping you too, to develop your LOVE LIFE and teach you a little bit, (as I am now matured,) about searching for a LIFELONG PARTNER.

Many of us had school time lovers and relationships. Some of us had a serious or what we thought was a serious relationship, as we were just learning about LOVE and thought we knew it all and that ENDED IN A LOT OF SEVERE HURT AND SHOCK and some of you haven't even recovered as yet.

Now that we have lived and learned, we have decided to take everything SLOW - SLOW - SLOW and DATE - GET TO KNOW - KNOW - KNOW - KNOW people before you change your status from SINGLE to IN A RELATIONSHIP to ENGAGED to popping the BIG QUESTION and getting MARRIED.

That's me! Although I am in search for love and talking with people, I'm in NO RUSH.

I have to build a proper communication relationship with who ever MRS. Khrystus 2015 will be, because THERE WILL BE A MRS. KHRYSTUS 2015 - GUARANTEED before December, 2015. Whether she is 17 or 18 or 19 or 30 or 33 or 35. There will be a Mrs. Khrystus 2015.

It will NEVER be about getting down into her skirt as quickly as I can and trying every SEX MOVE IN THE BOOK. It will be primarily about ensuring that BOTH of us COMMUNICATE WELL even before a relationship and fully well understand that Having Constant Sex Isn't Spending Quality Time.

We MUST agree together that there are OVER ONE MILLION NON-SEXUAL THINGS WE CAN DO to keep our relationship always SPICED UP TO THE MAX and celebrate our 50th Jubilee Wedding Anniversary together, because it is my SINCEREST intention to stick with my NEXT LOVER for life - through the good times and bad, till death do us part.

Don't get the wrong picture or view of me eh, for when the Next Prime Minister of The Federation of St. Kitts and Nevis gets down to THE BEDROOM BUSINESS, he'll be always so overly occupied and busy and out of sight that the opposition may have to FILE A MOTION OF NO CONFIDENCE because The PM is always busy having SEX. That would never be a problem for me though, I'll just find ways to delay THE MOTION OF NO CONFIDENCE for two years.

We watch and we learn I guess from current PRIME MINISTERS.

LOL - PEACE OUT!