Monday, September 22, 2014

Let's TALK Sex: Withholding SEX from your husband or wife is just as bad as INFIDELITY!

22nd September, 2014

By: Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace, The Next Prime Minister of St. Kitts and Nevis under a Blazing Star Movement Administration - www.theblazingstarmovement.com

Distributed Globally by: Dare 2 Be Different International Media Department - www.daretobedifferentskn.com




1 Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.


Electing a PASTOR as PRIME MINISTER shortly, is one of the BEST decisions that any country can make around the world. Everything is changing! Can't you see? It's now OK for a man to marry a man and a woman to marry a woman. Of course I DO NOT AGREE with that and never would. If that ever comes to my Blazing Star Movement Parliament in the future to be debated and wins by reason of a majority vote, I'll step down as Prime Minister. Many other things are changing too. These are serious times! VERY  SERIOUS  TIMES!

So too, HISTORY will change in the Federation of St. Kitts and Nevis just at the OPPORTUNE  TIME. History will ELECT a PASTOR  AS   PRIME  MINISTER just when God Approves NO  MATTER  WHAT  A  CONSTITUTION  SAYS - JUST  WATCH  AND  SEE! God does work in MYSTERIOUS  WAYS!

Let's talk SEX!

From the very onset, I want to make a startling statement that would cause many of you locally in St. Kitts - Nevis and around the world to think and think deeper. Here goes!

Withholding SEX from your husband or wife is just as bad as INFIDELITY!

The Apostle Paul, in one of his regular letters to the church at Corinth, spoke to several matters in 1st Corinthians 7:3-5.

Firstly, he gives a stern reminder to husbands and wives that their body doesn't belong to them alone when they get married. In those verses too, I do believe he was also strongly suggesting that WITH HOLDING SEX from each other is a SIN!

I also believe that he wasn't just talking about SEX, but he was reminding the couples, for example, that if the WIFE  DOESN'T  LIKE  HER  HUSBAND  WITH  A  TABLE  TOP  AND  A  BEARD  OR   BIG  BELLY, then it was the husband's obligation to do something about it.

ALSO, if the husband doesn't like the WIFE flirting around with a certain person or persons, or up late at nights on the phone, or dressing in extra TIGHT  PANTS  WITH  THONGS  when she's going to work, then that should stop too.

Pastors around the world who DO  NOT  TALK  TO  THEIR  CONGREGATIONS, both youth and adults about SEX  AND  FAMILY  LIFE  at a certain LEVEL are WEAK AND INSECURE  THEMSELVES! That's the plain old truth! It is because parents, pastors and other influential folks DO NOT TALK ABOUT SEX  AND  THE  IMPORTANCE  OF  FAMILY  LIFE regularly, and give proper advise and teaching, our world and our families now seem to be heading to the dogs and everyone is RUNNING  AWAY  FROM  GETTING  MARRIED!

Start listening closely to your PASTOR, because I  -  WE have the choice to preach what ever we want to preach and not touch certain things. If your PASTOR is afraid to preach the entire BIBLE and not touch certain topics, it is a BIG  POSSIBILITY that he or she may be guilty.

Let me say here too, that Khrystus Veren Khrystopherson Wallace isn't MR. PERFECT. Sometimes when God directs me to a particular passage of scripture on which to preach or teach, I sometimes get scared and want to shy away because THE  WORD  HITS  BE  HARD  TOO. Some sermons I preach are meant directly for me and puts me on the spotlight and makes people say, WELL  HE  PREACHING  ON  HESELF. But, that's all apart of being a MINISTER  OF  THE  GOSPEL. We have to do our job and aim to live lives that are pleasing and true to GOD, remembering that at some point in life, we will have to give an account to all those that we shepherded and all those that went astray because of the lives we lived or failed to live.

Let's get back to SEX  TALK!




King Solomon LOVED  SEX  AND  WOMEN! (I would not get into the downside of that in this article and what later became of him because of his wives and concubines, but probably another.) What I want to say here though, is that he was VERY  OPEN  WITH  REGARDS  TO  TALKING  ABOUT  WOMEN  AND  THEIR  BEAUTY  AND  HIS  SEXUAL  DESIRES."


    "How beautiful and how delightful you are, My love, with all your charms! "Your stature is like a palm tree, And your breasts are like its clusters. "I said, 'I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of its fruit stalks.' Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, And the fragrance of your breath like apples, " (Songs of Solomon 7:6-8)
Do you see? He uses quite an OLD  ENGLISH  STYLE  to describe BREASTS! WOW! YES  BREASTS!  ALL  MEN  DO  ADMIRE  BREASTS! Don't we? Let's be honest here! lol

Yes men! Women like to hear our CHARMING  WORDS  AND  also hear us express ourselves truthfully through writing or the boldest of us, like me - face to face.

Therefore, there is ABSOLUTELY  NOTHING  WRONG  WITH  SEX! What I will also say here though, is something that seems to NOT  BE  THE  ORDER OF  THE  DAY  ANYMORE as both youth and adults, watch how many marriages and relationships are ending up nowadays - ALL  WRECKED  AND  SMASHED and choose to SHY  AWAY. Women and men alike therefore test the waters, love the waters and stay drinking from the river continually without choosing to do the RIGHT  THING - THE  GOD  ORDAINED  THING -  GET  MARRIED!

Women now a days, just want a child of their own, then they can SUE  AND  PRESSURE  the man for CHILD  SUPPORT and men on the other hand just want to see how many girls / women they can secretly PLAY  AND  HAVE SEX  WITH  AND  TAKE  THEIR  VIRGINITY, without getting a CHILD and then sit on the street corners and watch them pass by in their work clothes or with another man and boast and say - "I done had she - SHE'S  A  DUTTY _______".

WOMEN! Know what you're doing eh! 

Remember, I've been to prison  WRONGFULLY  AND  ILLEGALLY?

It's a very boring place and all most of the men talk about is SEX and who they have been with. I am a smart guy and I know how to fit in anywhere and with any talk - even when CURSE  WORDS  ARE SWEARING  LEFT  RIGHT AND  CENTRE. I am a STRONG  MINDED  PERSON  AND  NOT  VERY  EASY  TO  PERSUADE!

Therefore, do you know why ex-cons and ex-remands love me and come look for me upon leaving prison and DO  NOT  PASS  ME  ANYWHERE  AND  I  HAVE  THEIR  NUMBERS  AND  THEY  HAVE  MINE? Simply because I'm down to earth. They told me about so many sexual experiences with girls and women, calling them by name and sharing the entire experience. They look out for me in every way and warn me if I'm talking to the wrong girl. I'm just being HONEST!

WOMEN - BE  CAREFUL!  BE  CAREFUL who you give yourselves too! Being there for six months, I had a lot of time to chill and talk. If you know me well, nothing really bothers me that much. I just adjust my mind to a SITUATION until its over and the tables turn and I get the upper hand again.

Very often, they might ask me who I thought was PRETTY or SEXY in a particular village. Yes, I'm a PREACHER - BUT  I  AM  ALSO  REAL  TOO!

Sometimes I may call a name and one would say - PREACHER - IF  YOU  KNOW WHAT  GOOD FOR  YOU and share their experience with the young lady.

You would be surprised to know how many YOUNG  LADIES  ARE  JUST  GIVING  AWAY  THEMSELVES  LIKE  THAT  FOR  MEN  TO  JUST  DRAG  THEIR  NAMES  AROUND  THE  PLACE.

Who should we blame? Who's responsible?

WOMEN  -  BE  CAREFUL!  BE  CAREFUL! 

KISS  AND  TALK  MEN  ARE  RUNNING  WILD! 

The better thing to do is to GET  MARRIED AND PRAY READ  YOUR  BIBLE  AND  TRY  YOUR BEST  TO  COOPERATE  AND  WORK THINGS  OUT  WITH  THAT  SINGLE  MAN, instead of running here there and everywhere and having INDECENT - UNRESPECTFUL  MEN  TALKING ABOUT  YOU  BECAUSE  THEY  COULDN'T  HAVE  YOU  FOREVER!

And to the BIG SHOTS  WITH  THE  BIG  JOBS  AND  THE  NUFF  MONEY  AND  WHO  WOULDN'T  SPEND  TIME  WITH  YOUR  PRETTY  DAUGHTERS  AND  CAN'T  CONTROL  YOUR  HOUSEHOLD  BUT  GIVING  YOUR  EMPLOYEES  HELL?- - -  that's another ARTICLE!  -  -  A  BEG  YOU  HUMBLE  YOU  HEAR  AND  GO  TRAIN  YOUR  CHILDREN

A word from The Next Prime Minister of St. Kitts and Nevis is ENOUGH!

I know that I can carry your minds up and down the place when it comes to talking about SEX, but let's stay FULLY  FOCUSED!

Withholding SEX from your husband or wife is just as bad as INFIDELITY!

Some women and some men too, choose to use SEX  IN  MARRIAGE as a punishment and/or a reward tool.

Let's use several examples.

1. A woman gets overly excited if her man, or let's say a wife gets overly excited if husband says "LET'S  GO  SHOPPING!" He buys her everything that she wants for her and her home and the children and she then rewards him with SEX.

What happens when he can't buy or he is out of a job? Things  DO  HAPPEN!

Does that mean that he gets NO  SEX  FOR  WEEKS  OR  MONTHS?

Marriages built on SEX  ALONE -  WON'T  WORK! Do not use SEX  AS  A  BLACKMAIL  TOOL!

Friend, these are the realities of LIFE!

2. A man gets angry with his wife for one reason or another and doesn't say anything. He puts on the silent treatment for days, sometimes weeks and rejects her continually when she reaches out for LOVE and PASSION  AND  SEX. This rejection makes her start questioning whether she is too fat, or if he is seeing someone else, or if she doesn't cook good etc.

She doesn't know and so they drift further and further apart until some NEW  MAN starts calling her, whatsapping her, emailing her, dropping special notes off at the job that you don't know about and then the DIVORCE  PAPERS  ARE  FILED.

While MARRIAGE  ISN'T  ALL  ABOUT  SEX,  SEX  IS  ONE  REASON  WHY  MARRIAGES  STAY  TOGETHER and things can definitely work out if married couples heed the advice of The Apostle Paul in 1st Corinthians 7 and also get to know each other and KEEP  ON  TALKING  AND  TALKING  AND  BEING  OPEN!

There are many more things that I want to touch on, but in other future articles from THE  OFFICE  OF  THE  NEXT  PRIME  MINISTER.

Therefore, let me say again. Withholding SEX from your husband or wife is just as bad as INFIDELITY!

Oh Yea. . . .I'm a preacher too. . . so let me say this loud and clear!

LEAVE   DE  PEOPLE  HUSBAND  ALONE   AND  DE  PEOPLE  WIFE  ALONE  AND  STOP  BREAKING  UP  DEY  MARRIAGE  AND  GO  PRAY - ASK  GOD  FOR  FORGIVENESS   AND  GO  LOOK  YOU  OWN!

WHO  DE  CAP  FIT - WEAR  IT!

And now back to Standard English (sweeteye!)

Good bye - Do have a Blessed Week! Chao!



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