Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Florida AIDS Victim: Brother Khrystus, A Sexually Promiscuous Life Isn't Worth It

25th November, 2014

By: Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace, President of Dare 2 Be Different International - www.daretobedifferentskn.com

Sexual Promiscuity Isn't Worth It


By now it is plain to see that it is very easy to reach me personally from anywhere around the world. My numbers and emails are public and I rarely ask folks to answer my personal lines. I do it myself when I am available and most times I am. So, from around the world, I talk to people all the time via Whatsapp: 1-869-661-0118  or Facebook or Twitter or LinkedIn and other social media websites or via one of my emails, usually drkhrystus@kvklives.com or some prior emails that I've stopped using now.

Months upon months ago, a very pretty lady from Florida - USA, a little younger than me, sent me her picture and said, I follow your inspirational writings and they mean a lot to me and keep me going (that's before I got into politics) and I'd like to get to know you some more. That's never a problem for me, talking and getting to know people and expanding my global network MEANS  THE  WORLD  TO  ME. Plus, I "KINDA" have a thing for girls BOLD enough to ask me out or simply ask to get to know me some more. Can I be honest with you?

Probably I'd stop reaching out and getting REJECTED from shy folks who don't know what they're losing out on when they turn me down or let their SHYNESS get me bored and scare me away. "DEY  SAY - LOVE  WHO  LOVE  YOU  AND  NOT  WHO  YOU  LOVE!" en tit? you agree? I have mixed feelings about that statement.

Anyway, the young lady and I started talking and talking and talking from one thing to the next over the days and weeks and months. NO  LOVE  OR  SEX  TALK! We've remained good friends up to today. The other day, she said, "Khrystus, YOU'RE  ONE  BRAVE  AND  BOLD  GUY  AND  I  ADMIRE  YOU EVEN  MORE  FOR  SHARING  YOUR  ENTIRE  STORY  WITH  THE  WORLD and I'm just addicted to your spirit, how involved you are in ministry, in business, in politics, in the community, in everything. It's like you enjoy TALKING  ABOUT how Prime Minister Douglas sent you TO  PRISON  IN  ST. KITTS  OVER  AND  OVER  AGAIN. Everybody tries to hide the bad side of their lives, but you talk about everything and I know that I am not alone when I say that you are INSPIRING  THE  WORLD."

She continued, "I want you to share my story too."

I asked, "What story?"

She responded, "You're a brilliant young man and I know that you know that we all have a story. I feel fully comfortable talking to you over the months and I know from your maturity and counseling experience dealing with others from what I've been reading, you will know how to deal with what I'm going to tell you  now, so prepare yourself."

I did prepare myself.

She said, "Khrystus, I  HAVE  FULL  BLOWN  AIDS.  A Sexually Promiscuous Life Isn't Worth It"

The extremely pretty lady, does want me to share her story with you, my global audience. I am not fully ready to present it, but during the last couple of days she said to me.

"Khrystus, you're too nice to let any woman DESTROY your life again. DO  NOT  TAKE  ANYTHING  FOR  GRANTED. If I never told you that I had AIDS and we continued to get good, even get into a relationship, I want you to answer me HONESTLY. Would you at ANYTIME, have ever asked me to take an AIDS  TEST? Would you have married me without taking an AIDS  TEST?"

I paused for a long while before answering and I said, "I probably would have never asked you to take an AIDS TEST and would have probably married you WITHOUT  taking an AIDS test if we ever got there.

Her statement caused me to THINK. Friend, let's be honest, bearing in mind that many people you start a relationship with may have had several partners before, DO  YOU  HAVE  THE  COURAGE  TO  ASK  THEM  TO  TAKE  AN  AIDS  TEST  before getting intimate with them? Do people usually ask your wife to be or husband to be to take an AIDS  TEST before you get married?

She said, "Khrystus, just how you are so aggressive with Ministry and Business and Politics, you have to also be aggressive in relationships. DO  NOT  LET  ANYONE  WALK  OVER  YOU  AGAIN. Don't be STUPID! Ask the hard questions. Give the one you're dating TESTS!"

"You're a brilliant guy with A LOT, A LOT, A LOT of BOOK  SENSE, but my previous life was on the street and in the REAL  WORLD - you NEED  STREET  SENSE to survive and make it in life! Don't let any girl FOOL  YOU  OR  HURT  YOU  AGAIN! Keep your eyes open! I respect you because you never, ever made sexual advances at me. But had you, I would have HURT you for life. I would have even raised the money to bring you to Florida just to HURT you and expose you. This is the real world Khrystus! This is the real world! People DO  NOT  CARE  ABOUT  PEOPLE. Only you seem to CARE, but your writings have inspired me A LOT  TO  CHANGE  AND  I  NOW  FOLLOW  JESUS  LIKE  YOU. You've shown me that even in my TRYING  SITUATION, there is still hope for me."

In time, I'll share her story with you as she wants me to. There are many lessons that we ALL  CAN LEARN  from this short literary piece even though I haven't shared her entire STORY as yet.

After her words to me, I  WENT  TO  SLEEP. Do you see how close we sometimes get to TRAGEDY? May we keep our faith and trust and hope in GOD and do RIGHT  AND  DO  GOOD. That's ALL that really matters.

QUESTION 1: How are you so sure that the person you are planning to get married to  OR  WHO  YOU  ARE  MARRIED  TO, hasn't been playing around too and doesn't have HIV / AIDS?

QUESTION 2: Do you just fall for anyone? Remember, a pretty or handsome boy or girl or lady or gentleman doesn't have what disease they may possibly have written on their FOREHEADS.

BE  WISE! Things have changed A LOT! Welcome to the REAL  WORLD!



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