14th July, 2014
By: Dare 2 Be Different International Media Department
Report By: Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace, The Next Prime Minister of St. Kitts and Nevis
Some PARENTS are to BLAME for the WAY their Children Have Turned Out & Will Turn Out!
Growing up, I never quite understood some of my mother's ways. I certainly do now and she has lived to see ALL OF US HIGHLY COMMEND HER AND THANK HER FOR A TRAINING JOB WELL DONE. While raising her four children, my mother, Mrs. Yvette Wallace, M.Ed used the POWER OF NO AND A LOT OF PSYCHOLOGY to bring us up in the right way plus the scripture - Train up a child. . . . . (I think she overused that SCRIPTURE though. When ever we did something wrong, she would sit us down in her room and give us a LONG - LONG - LONG lecture about what our actions now could cause us to do in the future and make us feel OVERLY GUILTY for the little "CHILD CRIME" we committed.
Then to make matters worse, she would pull "JASON" which was the name of her STRAP/BELT - she named it after FRIDAY 13th JASON (Psychology to SCARE US?) - and then make us say - Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. SEVERAL TIMES before we got our whipping. My younger brother and I never got too many lashes, we learned from Stascius' and Stanacius' mistakes. LOL) Not because you see my mother as a little cool lady eh, she's one TOUGH - DON'T MAKE JOKE GIANTS with a neat a little smile on the OUTSIDE!"
Anyway - let's get back to the ARTICLE!
Trust me, and I'm sure you know too, NO ONE LIKES TO BE REJECTED AND TOLD NO.
Do you like when the LOANS OFFICER SAYS NO after calculating some ratios or doing a credit check? Do you like when a LADY turns you down when you LIKE HER OR ADMIRE HER OR HAVE A CRUSH ON HER OR EVEN LOVE HER, LOVE HER, LOVE HER? And even carry a SURPRISE GIFT FOR HER AND SHE REJECTS IT OR SAYS SHE'S NOT INTERESTED? NO - no - no! None of us likes that! It hurts - BADLY!
Ladies, do you like when you do all in your power to get someone who you admire to NOTICE you and he just seems to be EYEING AND HANGING WITH THE OTHER LADY? NO YOU DON'T! - RIGHT? RIGHT!
If more parents use the POWER OF NO around the world, our children - our adolescents - our youth - our young adults would turn out to be much better. OUR WORLD WOULD THEREFORE BE A MUCH BETTER PLACE.
To tell you the honest, honest, honest TRUTH - parents. Children accept your gifts - your money - and everything else you GIVE, but all they really want is YOUR LOVE - CARE AND ATTENTION and you are not giving it to them, so SOMEONE ELSE IS.
You have to PRIORITIZE! What do you prefer? Working 12 hours or two jobs to buy the BEST for your children and then they end up smoking and pushing drugs or a TEENAGE FEMALE SEX LUNATIC who will go WILD THIS SUMMER while you're out at work and come back home just in time to make you feel that she was home all the time?
My youths at my Dare 2 Be Different International Ministry really can't go with me. I know how to deal with them better than their parents because I just happen to be YOUNG TOO - PASSED THAT WAY BEFORE, HEARD A LOT, HANG AROUND THE FELLOWS WHO TALK ABOUT THE YOUNG LADIES - DAUGHTERS OF BIG SHOTS WHO DO THAT AND THEN LAUGH AFTER THEM WHEN THEY DRIVE THEIR BIG VEHICLES AND MOVE SO HIGH AND MIGHTY AND PLAY LIKE THEIR CHILDREN ARE BETTER THAN EVERY BODY ELSES.
I AM STILL YOUNG AND STILL KNOW ALL THE TRICKS IN THE BOOKS THAT YOUNG PEOPLE USE. So they can never ESCAPE me in a counseling session. They just submit and let me help them CHANGE and we usually become best friends after and they tell me more of their tricks and laugh after how they FOOLED their parents and I stay UP TO DATE! (What is said in a counseling session says in a counseling session.)
Anyway - back to the article!
Who doesn't like gifts? We all do! We smile and really are HAPPY for the moment, but when that moment dies away, we sometimes WISH that the person who gave the GIFT just spent some TIME with us.
Parents, buying your child the most expensive clothes and name brand shoes and big chain and earrings at age 3 or 7 or 14 DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE!
You are training him or her wrong! Totally WRONG! You are causing them to develop a WRONG PERCEPTION OF THEMSELVES AND CREATING A WRONG IDENTITY FOR THEM. From the moment you start doing this, it MUST continue or they would develop a LOW SELF ESTEEM and get angry when you CANNOT KEEP UP WITH THE JONES' !
So, why are you "BAWLING" (to my international audience - I mean CRYING), now that you've started training your child that way and now that he or she is OLDER and they want a SAMSUNG GALAXY 5 and you can't give it to them, you are ANGRY WITH THEM AND WANT TO BEAT THEM BADLY FOR HARASSING YOU TO GET ONE! You shouldn't be angry with them - YOU TRAINED THEM THAT WAY! Now YOU did that, and you can't give it to them, they are turning ELSEWHERE.
Parents - DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY OF YOUR FEMALE TEENAGERS KEEP BEGGING ME TO BUY THEM A SAMSUNG GALAXY 5 and other things? Brother Khrystus is down to earth and easy to talk to - so EVERYONE - OF EVERY AGE TALKS TO ME. Of course I CAN do that! I can buy them what ever they want at any time. Ordering online is my business and I know where to get deals.
Suppose I was a DIFFERENT YOUNG MAN - EH? Do you honestly KNOW who your teenage girls and boys are talking to and what they are saying ONLINE and ON THEIR PHONES? Whatsapp? Blackberry Chat? Viber? Facebook?
That's why many teenage boys are turning HOMOSEXUALS and teenage girls are getting lured into SEX. YOU ARE NOT SPENDING ENOUGH TIME WITH THEM AND WHEN YOU DO, you just want them to AUTOMATICALLY TALK TO YOU and complain that they are withdrawn. IT IS YOUR FAULT! NOT THEIRS - YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR WAYS AND STOP BLAMING THEM! LOOK IN THE MIRROR! FIX YOU!!!!!!!
I actually teach personal classes at The Dare 2 Be Different Academy for parents who really want to know and learn how to monitor their children and teens on the computer and keep up to date and stay AHEAD of the game. (Call me 1-869-661-0118 or 1-869-765-7270)
The internet is a great tool - BUT IT IS ALSO ONE OF THE MOST DESTRUCTIVE AND DEVASTATING GLOBAL WEAPONS OUT THERE. TRUST ME - I AM TECHNOLOGY KING. I AM A POLITICIAN! www.theblazingstarmovement.com
War is a Business! Politics is War! I am a Born Businessman!
And now back to the ARTICLE!!!!!
Some PARENTS are to BLAME for the WAY their Children Have Turned Out & Will Turn Out!
Parents, SOMETIMES SAYING NO - can save your CHILD or CHILDREN from heading down a path of destruction. A PART OF - "I MUST GET ALL THAT I WANT NO MATTER THE COST!"
Buy them SOME THINGS - NOT EVERYTHING! Mix the buying! Buy some name brands and some regulars. NOT ALL NAME BRANDS! BE SMART - NOT STUPID!
That's what my mom did when she brought us up! I have several other points to tackle, but something in my spirit and instinct just told me to END HERE as you get the point!
YOU WON'T REGRET IT!
By: Dare 2 Be Different International Media Department
Report By: Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace, The Next Prime Minister of St. Kitts and Nevis
Some PARENTS are to BLAME for the WAY their Children Have Turned Out & Will Turn Out!
Growing up, I never quite understood some of my mother's ways. I certainly do now and she has lived to see ALL OF US HIGHLY COMMEND HER AND THANK HER FOR A TRAINING JOB WELL DONE. While raising her four children, my mother, Mrs. Yvette Wallace, M.Ed used the POWER OF NO AND A LOT OF PSYCHOLOGY to bring us up in the right way plus the scripture - Train up a child. . . . . (I think she overused that SCRIPTURE though. When ever we did something wrong, she would sit us down in her room and give us a LONG - LONG - LONG lecture about what our actions now could cause us to do in the future and make us feel OVERLY GUILTY for the little "CHILD CRIME" we committed.
Then to make matters worse, she would pull "JASON" which was the name of her STRAP/BELT - she named it after FRIDAY 13th JASON (Psychology to SCARE US?) - and then make us say - Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. SEVERAL TIMES before we got our whipping. My younger brother and I never got too many lashes, we learned from Stascius' and Stanacius' mistakes. LOL) Not because you see my mother as a little cool lady eh, she's one TOUGH - DON'T MAKE JOKE GIANTS with a neat a little smile on the OUTSIDE!"
Anyway - let's get back to the ARTICLE!
Trust me, and I'm sure you know too, NO ONE LIKES TO BE REJECTED AND TOLD NO.
Do you like when the LOANS OFFICER SAYS NO after calculating some ratios or doing a credit check? Do you like when a LADY turns you down when you LIKE HER OR ADMIRE HER OR HAVE A CRUSH ON HER OR EVEN LOVE HER, LOVE HER, LOVE HER? And even carry a SURPRISE GIFT FOR HER AND SHE REJECTS IT OR SAYS SHE'S NOT INTERESTED? NO - no - no! None of us likes that! It hurts - BADLY!
Ladies, do you like when you do all in your power to get someone who you admire to NOTICE you and he just seems to be EYEING AND HANGING WITH THE OTHER LADY? NO YOU DON'T! - RIGHT? RIGHT!
If more parents use the POWER OF NO around the world, our children - our adolescents - our youth - our young adults would turn out to be much better. OUR WORLD WOULD THEREFORE BE A MUCH BETTER PLACE.
To tell you the honest, honest, honest TRUTH - parents. Children accept your gifts - your money - and everything else you GIVE, but all they really want is YOUR LOVE - CARE AND ATTENTION and you are not giving it to them, so SOMEONE ELSE IS.
You have to PRIORITIZE! What do you prefer? Working 12 hours or two jobs to buy the BEST for your children and then they end up smoking and pushing drugs or a TEENAGE FEMALE SEX LUNATIC who will go WILD THIS SUMMER while you're out at work and come back home just in time to make you feel that she was home all the time?
My youths at my Dare 2 Be Different International Ministry really can't go with me. I know how to deal with them better than their parents because I just happen to be YOUNG TOO - PASSED THAT WAY BEFORE, HEARD A LOT, HANG AROUND THE FELLOWS WHO TALK ABOUT THE YOUNG LADIES - DAUGHTERS OF BIG SHOTS WHO DO THAT AND THEN LAUGH AFTER THEM WHEN THEY DRIVE THEIR BIG VEHICLES AND MOVE SO HIGH AND MIGHTY AND PLAY LIKE THEIR CHILDREN ARE BETTER THAN EVERY BODY ELSES.
I AM STILL YOUNG AND STILL KNOW ALL THE TRICKS IN THE BOOKS THAT YOUNG PEOPLE USE. So they can never ESCAPE me in a counseling session. They just submit and let me help them CHANGE and we usually become best friends after and they tell me more of their tricks and laugh after how they FOOLED their parents and I stay UP TO DATE! (What is said in a counseling session says in a counseling session.)
Youths say that I'M THEIR DAWG!!!! I can hold SECRETS WELL! MAYBE YOUR CHILD TALKS TO ME!!!!!
Anyway - back to the article!
Who doesn't like gifts? We all do! We smile and really are HAPPY for the moment, but when that moment dies away, we sometimes WISH that the person who gave the GIFT just spent some TIME with us.
Parents, buying your child the most expensive clothes and name brand shoes and big chain and earrings at age 3 or 7 or 14 DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE!
You are training him or her wrong! Totally WRONG! You are causing them to develop a WRONG PERCEPTION OF THEMSELVES AND CREATING A WRONG IDENTITY FOR THEM. From the moment you start doing this, it MUST continue or they would develop a LOW SELF ESTEEM and get angry when you CANNOT KEEP UP WITH THE JONES' !
So, why are you "BAWLING" (to my international audience - I mean CRYING), now that you've started training your child that way and now that he or she is OLDER and they want a SAMSUNG GALAXY 5 and you can't give it to them, you are ANGRY WITH THEM AND WANT TO BEAT THEM BADLY FOR HARASSING YOU TO GET ONE! You shouldn't be angry with them - YOU TRAINED THEM THAT WAY! Now YOU did that, and you can't give it to them, they are turning ELSEWHERE.
Parents - DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY OF YOUR FEMALE TEENAGERS KEEP BEGGING ME TO BUY THEM A SAMSUNG GALAXY 5 and other things? Brother Khrystus is down to earth and easy to talk to - so EVERYONE - OF EVERY AGE TALKS TO ME. Of course I CAN do that! I can buy them what ever they want at any time. Ordering online is my business and I know where to get deals.
Suppose I was a DIFFERENT YOUNG MAN - EH? Do you honestly KNOW who your teenage girls and boys are talking to and what they are saying ONLINE and ON THEIR PHONES? Whatsapp? Blackberry Chat? Viber? Facebook?
That's why many teenage boys are turning HOMOSEXUALS and teenage girls are getting lured into SEX. YOU ARE NOT SPENDING ENOUGH TIME WITH THEM AND WHEN YOU DO, you just want them to AUTOMATICALLY TALK TO YOU and complain that they are withdrawn. IT IS YOUR FAULT! NOT THEIRS - YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR WAYS AND STOP BLAMING THEM! LOOK IN THE MIRROR! FIX YOU!!!!!!!
I actually teach personal classes at The Dare 2 Be Different Academy for parents who really want to know and learn how to monitor their children and teens on the computer and keep up to date and stay AHEAD of the game. (Call me 1-869-661-0118 or 1-869-765-7270)
The internet is a great tool - BUT IT IS ALSO ONE OF THE MOST DESTRUCTIVE AND DEVASTATING GLOBAL WEAPONS OUT THERE. TRUST ME - I AM TECHNOLOGY KING. I AM A POLITICIAN! www.theblazingstarmovement.com
War is a Business! Politics is War! I am a Born Businessman!
And now back to the ARTICLE!!!!!
Some PARENTS are to BLAME for the WAY their Children Have Turned Out & Will Turn Out!
Parents, SOMETIMES SAYING NO - can save your CHILD or CHILDREN from heading down a path of destruction. A PART OF - "I MUST GET ALL THAT I WANT NO MATTER THE COST!"
Buy them SOME THINGS - NOT EVERYTHING! Mix the buying! Buy some name brands and some regulars. NOT ALL NAME BRANDS! BE SMART - NOT STUPID!
That's what my mom did when she brought us up! I have several other points to tackle, but something in my spirit and instinct just told me to END HERE as you get the point!
TOUGH LOVE - YOU CALL IT! USE THE POWER OF NO - IT's ONE OF THE BEST TOOLS FOR TRAINING YOUR CHILD! THEY HONESTLY DON'T NEED TO GET EVERYTHING THAT JUST COMES OUT AND EVERYTHING THEY SEE ON THE SUPERMARKET SHELF OR EVERYTHING THEIR FRIENDS HAVE. USE THE POWER OF NO!
YOU WON'T REGRET IT!
EMBROIDER YOUR CHILD'S NAME ON HIS OR HER SCHOOL BAG - EC$20 - Call 1-869-661-0118 or 1-869-765-7270 - We're always ready to serve you!
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